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Barefoot Bob in his 1914 Ford Model-T,
Summer 2008
Welcome to the Barefoot
Bob Memorial
Page
Born: August 8th,
1933
Sobriety Date:
February 28th, 1974
Died: January 31st,
2009
The following
are messages, stories and photos submitted by you good folks involving our
good friend Bob during the course of his final adventure.
So let’s get started…
Download Bob's Obituary
here:
Unformatted text file:
Obituary.txt
MS-Word Document:
Obituary.doc
Web (html) Document:
Obituary.htm
See the Casper, Wyoming Star Tribune
story about Bob by Christine
Robinson
click here |
Printed on Sunday, February
22nd, 2009
in the Coeur d'Alene Press.
Reprinted
in the Casper, Wyoming Trib.
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Posted May 8th, 2010
From a friend in recovery
I am so, so sorry to
hear about the passing of Barefoot. I use his site all the
time and never realized he was gone until now. To me, who only
knew him through the site, he was still there and, I guess,
continues to be there in the same way that I always knew him.
Shais T.
Visit
chasidicthought.com
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Posted March 2nd, 2010
From a friend in recovery
Regarding Barefoot Bob and his good works
at
www.barefootsworlds.net, especially
http://www.barefootsworld.net/bftwrite.html
Something moved me to re-visit the "recovery pages" on Barefoot
Bob's website today; I was ruminating over the passing of another AA
member who became one of my mentors. The news that Bob Hardison
passed away on January 31 was not what I'd hoped to find.
I'd communicated with Bob via e-mail a couple times shortly after he
returned home from his Atlantic cruise. I doubt he ever knew how
important he was in my early recovery from alcoholism; it began in
2003 and I found his website that fall.
Inspired by his work, I created
www.route164.net
I will do anything I can to help keep Bob's website up and running.
It's a fine example and great source of information and inspiration
for folks like me. It's likely to save lives.
Let me know how I can help. It's the best way I can pay my respects
to the man I never met, a man I respect. I wish to honor him. What
can I do?
Best regards,
Don K.
Primary Purpose Group
Anchorage, Alaska
Visit
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Posted July 4th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
June 27th, 2009
I am so sorry to learn of Bob's death.
We had exchanged a few emails over the past four years. He was
always such a big help to me when I was looking for something that
pertained to AA history. I was always so impressed by his web site
and the amount of time that he had spent posting information,
articles and history of AA and making it so user friendly. I never
told him that...I hope that he knows. Will have to put a note to
Bob in my God Box tonight.
I was on his site a few days ago and I emailed him a question ( I
received your response back and was stunned). I was gathering info
to be ready to lead a Traditions workshop. I did find the info for
which I was looking. Sure hope that his web site will stay online
for those who are searching out the history of AA.
In love and service,
Marlene |
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Posted July 4th, 2009
From Bob's Former Wife
June 21st, 2009
I wanted to share something about
Barefoot to pass on to all of the many people who have visited this
website, something few people know. You see I was there when
Barefoot attended his first AA meeting and I know the story of the
handle "Barefoot" that was given him. It started at the
"Friendship Club" in Orange, CA. Feb 28, 1974. He always took
his shoes off whenever he got the chance, no matter where he was.
One day one of the members said they should start calling him
"Barefoot", so with his new sobriety came a new name. He has been
"Barefoot Bob" ever since.
The greatest gift he gave me was, our children, Susan and Casey.
Susan was able to visit him in the Hospital before he died and she
came to understand what he was all about and it helped them both to
finally come to terms with their relationship.
His passing has left a hole in my heart but his legacy lives on and
for that I am happy.
Love and peace
Phyllis Hardison Dague |
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Posted July 4th, 2009
From a friend
April 21st, 2009
I happened upon Bobs website, when I
was looking for a good comprehensive simple stupid dissertation
on US history and the US Constitution. Once I found Bobs site,
I was hooked........for the past six years!!!!
His website is simply beautiful as
well as informative. Bob came across as a soul with much wisdom
compiled with compassion and love.
Bob is now free as a bird in the
company of God and great thinkers like himself. His senses are
no longer assaulted by the degeneracy and degradation that the
world has become.
Lucky you Bob. Stay well, looking
forward to meeting you, at the time when I throw of my earthly,
mudane shackles of flesh and become a free soul like you.
Gisele
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Posted July 4th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
April 15th, 2009
Hi, just a comment....
I found Barefoot's page about 3 weeks ago
and it has been a constant friend since then....and have also told
friends about it and they are relying on it for advice, etc...thanks
for keeping it going.....A Friend in IN
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
March 9th, 2009
Hi: Barbara Bemis Ogden from the
class of 1951 speaking. Seeing the article on the front page of
the Casper paper, was very impressive, being on the front
page...it was uniquely done, and I would say an unusual thing to
be on the front page. That was great. Christine Robinson
deserves a pat on the back for accomplishing an article like
that....and anyone else who promoted it. Especially, when
generally now people must pay to have any information in; and
story took it out of that realm. I did not know the story of
Bob's life; and I'm sure many other classmates were glad to know
of his abilities to reach others who needed him, just as I
appreciated learning the information.
Visit the NCHS Class
of '51 page on this website
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Posted March 9th, 2009
News Flash
From the
Casper, Wyoming Star
Tribune
Printed March 9th, 2009
Added to this website with permission
from the author and newspaper
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NC graduate helped others
through his recovery
By Christine Robinson
Casper Star-Tribune staff-writer
He looked for his son in every
city he visited.
Each new town, in each new phone
book, he looked for Brett Hardison. More doors to knock, more wrong
houses.
Robert Hardison, 76, searched
for his first son for nearly 30 years.
His alcoholism made him lose
Brett. But his recovery influenced hundreds if not thousands of
people.
Bob was the connecting point in
a community he built and nurtured through his Web site. Everywhere
he traveled, he met and counseled people.
Memorials on his Web site credit
him with saving lives. Some say he helped them become sober and stay
there. Others say his spirituality was the only thing that kept them
grounded during a turbulent time.
For 35 years, the man known to
many as Barefoot Bob brought people into recovery and helped them
conquer demons he knew too well.
"No matter what else
happens...you've had a long term positive effect on this drunk." --
Bill, from a testimonial written on
barefootsworld.net.
Many words are used to describe
Bob: spiritual, dignified, a true man of the West, political,
intelligent, adventurous and caring.
Friends said he was generous,
driving hours to visit with someone who needed him, writing e-mail
after e-mail of correspondence to those struggling with addiction.
He was a man who was on a
first-name basis with God -- he called him Charlie -- and was also
deeply committed to Native American spirituality.
Richard C. Green met Bob through
barefootsworld.net, Bob's Web site. They talked mainly about his
postings about America and the Constitution. He and Bob e-mailed
multiple times and Bob visited Green and his wife in Connecticut.
"This was a man, this was a
fellow, a person you could look at and say 'This is a man,' and that
is unfortunately a rare commodity in today's world," Green said. "He
never turned anyone down when someone needed to talk to him."
Even as Bob was dying of cancer,
he still wanted to talk with people and share the journey of his
death with those near him, said Andreas Braunlich, a close friend
who is temporarily operating Bob's Web site.
Only weeks before he died, Bob
told Braunlich to tell everyone this: "The old man is hanging in
there and so can they. All we all have to do is not pick up that
first drink."
Braunlich and others tried to
connect Internet into Bob's hospice room so he could communicate
within weeks of his death. Others came and held Alcoholics Anonymous
meetings with him as he focused through the haze of morphine given
to ease the pain.
"The biggest gift he gave me is
what I am getting now, how one person can impact so many different
people in so many different ways," Braunlich said.
"I am better for having known
Bob and for reading all that he has passed on to me." -- Herb from
Salt Spring Island, British Columbia
The Idaho resident spent only
three of his 76 years in Wyoming, but even in that short time, he
made an impression.
Graduating from Natrona County
High School in 1951, Bob took charge of keeping the classmates
organized on the Mustang Class of '51 Web site.
His last gathering in Casper was
his 55th reunion in 2006.
Former classmate Marvin McKinley
still remembers Bob as an adventurer. The two worked on the Gusher,
Natrona County High School's newspaper.
McKinley, as well as other Class
of '51 students, including Casper resident Pat Tripeny followed
Bob's postings about his adventures.
After Bob began recovery, he
married again, and had two more kids, Casey and Susan.
He worked and traveled, holding
a nagging feeling of loss for the child he never knew because of the
alcoholism he was working to defeat.
When his second son, Casey, was
young, the two men took a summer to travel Lewis
and Clark's journey down the Missouri River. They wore leather
clothes, carried, pushed and paddled a canoe, living off the land
and eating what they shot with black powder rifles.
It all started from one of
Casey's math problems. When they went to the library to find an
answer, Bob said, "let's just do it," recounted his younger brother
Mike Hardison.
But in those many travels with
his son, and subsequent trips on his motorcycle, trimaran and 1914
Model T, he looked for his first son.
If you asked him, who knows what
he would say his motivation -- for the Web site and constant
communication, for the time and commitment it took to sponsor
hundreds of people through their own AA journeys. But perhaps it was
because he knew what alcoholism could do. He knew what he had lost.
"Thank you Capt. Bob for all you
have taught me. I thank the Almighty God for his life." -- Capt.
Leon Raynor s/v Sally Bum Bum, Bermuda.
When Brett was two, his mother
divorced Robert. Bob's alcoholism was too much to handle, Brett
said. He would come by every year around Christmas time until Brett
was eight. Then his mother moved, and the father and son didn't see
each other again.
After Bob got sober, Feb. 28,
1974, he went looking for the son he had lost. Every town Bob
visited he searched phone books for Brett Hardison. And he visited
every address, just in case.
In 1995, Bob was in a town in
California on his motorcycle, looking through another phone book.
There was a Hardison listing,
and as he had countless times before, he found the house, hoping to
find his son.
Brett was 35 then, an adult who
hadn't seen his father since he was 8 years old.
Standing outside of his house
with his wife and 9-month-old daughter, Brett saw an old man drive
up on a motorcycle and take his helmet off.
"That's my dad," he thought.
The man walked up to him and
asked if it was the Hardison residence.
"You're my dad," Brett said.
They talked, asked for
forgiveness and gave forgiveness, and Bob knew that his first son,
who he had never really known, was OK.
Then Bob added Brett to the
ever-growing list of people he talked with, visited and loved.
His purpose in life, he wrote,
was, "To carry this message of love and peace into the world the
best way I know how, through the 12 Steps and 12 Traditions of
Alcoholics Anonymous."
And so he continued, until his
dying day, to reach out to people and bring them hope through his
healing.
Illustration by Wes Watson of the Casper,
Wyoming Star Tribune
"I am better for having known Bob and
for reading all that he has passed on to me." -- Herb from Salt
Spring Island, British Columbia
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[Editorial note:
Below is an email exchange regarding the story above]
Email from Christine Robinson,
author of the story above, on March 9th, 2009
The
story on Bob Hardison ran this morning. It should be on
www.trib.com. I hope it's OK. Thank you again for your help.
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Email to Christine, March 9th,
2009
Thank you very much! I was excited
to read your article and it exceeded my hopes. A friend of mine
summed it up as follows and I agree completely:
"The story is delightful. It
hits in some way or another on all of Bob's good points and only
tangentially on some of the bad. Second, the story is
exceedingly well written. It is neither maudlin nor
idolatrous. It is just plain Bob." - Tim H.
You really did a great job and I am
sure that Bob would have liked it and that his many friends will
as much as I do.
When I copy the article into Bob's
website memorial page, I would like to do it properly. Could
you please email me the text I need to add so that you and your
newspaper are properly linked and credited? It would be a big
help!
Thanks again and have a great day,
info@barefootsworlds.net
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Reply from Christine on March 9th,
2009
Thank you for the kind
e-mail. It's hard to capture a person with a life as full as
Bob's, so I am glad I could at least touch on some of it.
Copied below is the text. I'm really not a computer person,
so I don't know if this is the best format for you or not.
Also below is the
illustration done by Wes Watson. Or you could link to
www.trib.com
I hope this helps, if you
were hoping for something different, let me know and I will
ask someone around the office.
Thanks again for all your
help,
Christine
[Editorial note:
the attached material is the story and illustration above]
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The following is a direct link to the
story online:
http://www.trib.com/articles/2009/03/09/news/wyoming/7fc176c91dd8d24387257573002676d5.txt
And don't forget to leave Christine a
nice comment below the story on the website!
Please visit the website of the Casper,
Wyoming Star Tribune at:
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Posted March 9th, 2009
From a friend
March 6th, 2008
I was so saddened to click on Bobs site and
find him passed over. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Thank you Bob my friend for your time in creating this wonderful site that has
many times put me back on the right path.
God bless you gentle man, sleep peacefully
in the arms of the lord,
Mal
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Posted March 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
March 6th, 2008
My name is Laurie
Pearson [male]
Though I never actually
physically met BOB, we did meet on the web after I had
stumbled on his web site. I am both saddened at his
passing yet at the same time I can be glad to have known
him. He made the program and I have no doubt that
his thoughts and actions will live on.
May he rest in peace and and
thanks for your support
From the land of Down under
Melbourne Australia
Our Father ,
Who art in Heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name
Thy Kingdom Come
Thy will be done
On earth as it is in
Heaven
“Give us this day our
Daily Bread
And forgive us our
trespasses
As we Forgive those
who Trespass against us
And lead us not into
temptation
Bur deliver us from
Evil
For Thine is the
Kingdom , The Power
and the Glory for
Ever and Ever
Amen
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Posted March 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
March 2nd, 2008
Every so often I
download the pictures from my camera and review/categorize
them. A sudden wave of loss and gratitude enveloped me when
I first saw these. They include the last AA meeting I
attended with Barefoot Bob. I have compressed them so they
won't hang up your e-mail server (hopefully). The full-sized
8-Megapixel originals have been retained intact on my laptop
and are available upon request to anyone desiring a copy.
The world seems to be a much smaller... and larger place
lately. I hope Bob remembers my request and finds me a good
old-fashioned "smoking" meeting before I get there.
Somehow,.. it doesn't feel like a REAL meeting if I don't
walk out with my eyes burning out of my skull.
Keep the Faith by
Sharing the Message
Scenes from Hospice at the Spokane VA
Medical Center
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Posted March 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
March 1st, 2008
I read of Bob's passing today and he
will be missed. I first came across his sight when I moved to
Mexico back in 1998. I was five years sober and did not speak
any Spanish when I moved there. I moved there to follow a dream
of owning an ATV rental company in Rocky Point, Sonora. I
certainly related well to Bob's sense of adventure and zest for
life in sobriety. It was great to have someone to exchange
emails with and talk about recovery over the internet. Bob's
postings have been a great source of inspiration and information
to me through the years.
Save a seat for me Barefoot...I'll
make the coffee.
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Posted March 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
March 1st, 2008
As someone who spent many years getting
sober I want to extend my deepest heartfelt gratitude to Bob and my
sadness at his passing. He was one of the AA member's who taught me
the true nature and value of the program and helped me to finally
discover that much needed spiritual experience. Love and best wishes
to you Bob, wherever you are - you're name lives on in the
preservation of the true message of AA and the future drunks who
come to know both sobriety and serenity.
Jonathan L-C
Bristol, England
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Posted March 8th, 2009
From a friend
March 1st, 2008
Bob
A good man with a great spirit lives on, I am glad to know people
like BOB existed in our world today and thank him for "being" here.
You will be missed yet glad you are in
good hands in spirit , again thanks for being here.
Joe R
Fullerton, Calif.
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Posted March 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 28th, 2008
With heart-felt sympathy I am very sorry
to hear of our loss. I wondered onto Bob's website a while ago and
have shared it with many in the fellowship. I have found BB
p.568(570), Appendix II, Spiritual
Experience "With few exceptions our members find that they
have tapped an unsuspected inner resource
which they presently identify with their own conception of a Power
greater than themselves." Bob has helped me and many more on our
journey. His website is loaded with an unbelievable amount of
knowledge and wisdom I hope his website will be maintained. I look
forward to seeing him at the meetings in the sky.
Sincerely,
Mike
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Posted March 8th, 2009
Possible article in Casper, Wyoming Star
Tribune
February 25th, 2008
It is my own
personal opinion that Barefoot Bob was a very rare, and special;
sort of person. He was most certainly a ‘true American Patriot’
which are actually rare. Many People make that claim, but few
actually carry the torch. Barefoot was certainly one of the few
that carried the torch of freedom, and liberty proudly, and has
earned my utmost respect for his contributions.
I never meet
this true American Patriot (Barefoot) face to face but would
have been greatly honored to have had the privilege. I know of
him through his Web Site Barefoot’s World. I could not tell you
how many times I have visited that site as a source of
“Enlightenment” which seemed to be the main theme and lesson of
his pages. “People must enlighten (educate) themselves” in order
to avoid being abused, which aligns with the words of a well
known book known as the Holy Bible in which I firmly believe.
“Enlightenment” is the key to freedom, and liberty which “all
People” seem to desire. Unfortunately it seems that few People
are willing to pay the price of their own liberty and freedom
(Which is time and effort). The cost of the key to freedom and
liberty is never ending vigilance to seek the ‘Truth” and
Enlighten themselves. It seems that vast majority of People
prefer ‘entertainment over the animating contest of
enlightenment’ which Barefoot offered freely to those that would
look.
Over the
course of twenty plus years of my ‘personal endeavor to
enlighten myself’ I have encountered many sources of educational
and enlightening materials. Many of these sources of
educational, and enlightening materials I have encountered over
the years proclaimed themselves to be loyal, true, American
Patriot’s, serving the American People, and our system of
governance, and placed themselves on pedestals next to Barefoot,
and what he offered. The primary difference between them and
Barefoot was that the material they offered was offered to those
willing, and able to pay a monetary price, while Barefoot
offered the same information free.
It is my own
opinion that none of those sources even held a candle in
comparison to the bright beacon of “truth” that Barefoot found
in his heart to offer freely. Barefoot served his countrymen
well, and profit was not his motive. In sort over the years I
have encountered many so called Patriots whose motives appear to
be profit, and self esteem, and not the selfless desire to
rekindle the flames of freedom and liberty in America. My own
belief is that Barefoot serves the same “Creator” that I attempt
to serve. I am certain that the “Great Legislature of this
Universe” was well prepared to accept Barefoot, into his realm
and that Barefoot now holds a ‘very high’ position of honor and
respect in that realm.
Sincerely
James Clair
Brown (AKA Jimmy Freeman)
Lincolnton,
North Carolina
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Posted March 8th, 2009
Possible article in Casper, Wyoming Star
Tribune
February 23rd, 2008
Andreas,
This is great and I am sure all of
the members of the class of 51 thank you very much. I hope she
visits the memorial page. I did after I received this from you
and I was overwhelmed with what I read, but I guess I shouldn't
have expected any less. I hope Bob is up there looking down
on us and learning how he really touched people in all walks of
life all over this world, and appreciated by most all of them,
of this I feel sure.
Marvin McKinley
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Posted March 8th, 2009
Possible article in Casper, Wyoming Star
Tribune
February 23rd, 2008
I knew Bob for about five
years. He always claimed to be self-educated, which was not
entirely true, but could carry on a conversation with any
college professor on an equal footing; I know that because I was
a college professor for nearly forty years and had many chats
with him. Bob never could figure out why someone with my
education did not know as much about the Constitution as he did;
knowledge of our country's history was basic to Bob, like simple
mathematics and grammar.
Barefoot Bob was one of the
most service oriented individuals it has ever been my pleasure
to know. I never knew him to refuse to take a minute to help
out someone who was a bit less fortunate than he was.
Bob and I agreed
occasionally and disagreed the rest of the time, mainly about
politics. Probably he was more of a Westerner than I am because
of his conservatism. . . .or maybe he was more of a
Libertarian. Probably it was Hardisonism. I only got him mad
one time and that was when I remarked I had been on his web site
and noticed he was backing Paul Ron for President. As he was
correcting me (Ron Paul!) he noticed a wry smile on my face and
immediately started chuckling himself.
Bob loved a good joke,
especially one that employed some sort of language trick, like
strange puns. I think his ability to field outrageous jokes
came from his voracious reading habits. It was a lot easier to
figure out what he had read than what he had not read.
Barefoot called God,
Charlie. I never knew why but it always made sense that this
man was on a first name basis with his god. When Bob entered a
room, most of the conversation stopped until he was seated. He
enjoyed an enormous amount of respect no matter where he went.
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Posted March 8th, 2009
Possible article in Casper, Wyoming Star
Tribune
February 23rd, 2008
Hi Everyone,
A journalist
with the Casper, Wyoming Trib (Trib.com) would like to write an
article about Barefoot Bob. Her email address is:
Christine
Robinson
xxx-xxx-xxxx
Christine.Robinson@Trib.Com
Most of you have
known Bob for far longer than I have. If you feel like you have
something worthwhile to contribute, please contact her. I for one
would be very interested in what she has to write.
Please be
considerate and contact her soon! My significant other is a
reporter so I understand they have to work under a deadline. I am
sure a prompt response would be appreciated.
Thanks and have
a great day,
Andreas
xxx-xxx-xxxx
info@barefootsworlds.net
PS: For
Christine, whom I have cc'ed on this email - this is going out to
hundreds of folks whose lives good old Barefoot Bob has touched. I
am sure you will get some good responses and information.
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Posted February 22nd, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 22nd, 2009
Hi Andreas,
I wrote to you 15/16 February when I visited the site and
saw that Bob had died. Thanks for your reply. I can see that
this is busy time for you so I wont take too much of it. I
though I would send you this. It's my first email exchange
with Bob. I was deep in denial of my own Alcoholism and used
Alanon to keep me sober whilst I tried to "cure" her [his
wife]. I stopped drinking April 6th, a couple of months
before this exchange. Exposed to the truth about the disease
it didn't take me long to figure out I had it too. Bob and I
shared a number of mails over the last few years and as I
came to terms with my own alcoholism I have begun one day at
a time to find sobriety. The obsession to drink has
dissipated by the grace of God leaving me free to heal
emotionally, to grow spiritually and to find out more about
love, unconditional love, and to practice it too,
Thanks
Love to you,
Mike
Mike's First Email Message
to Bob - July 9th, 2005:
I came across your site
whilst surfing, looking for information on AA and
Alanon. My wife is suffering from Alcoholism and has
been for a few years. I've only just realized how sick I
have become and I have started attending Alanon in order
to effect a recovery. I'm stuck on step one
intellectually and emotionally but I do have a little
hope where before there was deep despair. I find your
site very soothing.
Thanks,
Mike X
Bob's Reply - July 9th,
2005:
Hello, Mike....
to help you with the
difference between religion and spirituality I suggest
you read the page the describes my own battle...
http://www.barefootsworld.net/aareligionspirituality.html
And the problem is not one of
external unmanageability, but the internal
unmanageability of our emotions and mental processes...
When we look at the reality of alcoholism, the problem
is in the mind (although genetic metabolic differences
enter into the problem also) and when we straighten out
the spiritual, the mental and physical problems
straighten out too.
There is nothing you can do to manage or change the
alcoholism of another, the only thing you can do is
change your thinking about it... and Alanon will help
you release them to whatever is their future and help
you to better yours.
Love and Peace,
Barefoot
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Posted February 22nd, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 21st, 2009
Just made one of my
infrequent visits to the site and read that Bob had
passed away. I am deeply sadden and my heartfelt wishes
go out to his family.
I've been given this gift now
for over twenty years and routinely referenced Bob's
website in those early years.
Bob more than gave to me what
I couldn't give to myself, and he will be sorely missed.
God Bless and may may he rest
in Peace and enjoy the ultimate blessings with Our Lord
Jesus Christ.
Jim
(Sobriety Is Our
Greatest Asset, Simple)
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Posted February 22nd, 2009
From a friend in recovery
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Posted February 22nd, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 18th, 2009
I came across Bob's rendition of
The Serenity Prayer set to the music of Massanet during
August of 2007. I was reading his thoughts on the prayer
and finding The Great Reality deep inside. It was then that
the Miracle happened and I found myself in the presence of a
Higher Power I never knew existed. I have remained sober
for almost two years and credit Barefoot Bob for providing
me with the spiritual tools to find a better way of life.
He will be deeply missed.
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Posted February 16th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 16th, 2009
I am early in sobriety , 1/2
years. I found Bob's pages to be very helpful in
understanding the program. He took the 12th step to a whole
other level. Who knows how many of us he has help with his
pages. Million no doubt. He gave back to anyone who
visited his website.
Rest in peace, I know you will
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Posted February 16th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 16th, 2009
Just a short note to offer
my condolence to Bob's family and to tell you one and all
that Bob understood what Pass It On meant!
I am better for having known
Bob and for reading all that he has passed on to me.
In whatever way you can, in
whatever time you have left here, and with love pass it on, eh?
...and keep coming back...
Gracias a Dios.
With Love and respect,
Herb B
Salt Spring Island BC
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Posted February 16th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 15th, 2009
This was taken Sept 1998 at the
Revelstoke BC roundup. Barefoot and I had been communicating via
email for about 4 years prior to this. We linked to each others
sobriety sites but had never met f2f. We went to this roundup to
meet a good friend of ours from Salmon Arm BC. I was sitting on
Friday night listening to the speaker and this old grizzled
fart sits down next to me. Never gave it too much thought till
he placed his big book down on the table and I read the name,
Barefoot Bob written on the page ends. I shook his hand and he
said Barefoot Bob is my name and I said Nugget is mine. We all
spent the weekend together till he rode off on his bike one way
and I drove off the other way.
Barefoot was every bit of what I
expected him to be, a testimony of sobriety.
Save a seat in that meeting in the
sky Barefoot for me. Never known when I might sit down beside
you and we meet again.
Nugget
DOS May 1st 1988
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Hope this pic comes out okay.
Barefoot on the left, Deanna R. and Nugget aka Jim L.
Visit Nugget's website at:
http://www.members.shaw.ca/nuggetville/
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Posted February 15th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 15th, 2009
Just made one of my infrequent
visits to the site and read that Bob had passed away. I am in
London, England. I have been sober nearly five years. In my
early days I was quite strung out and searched the net to seek
help and support. I know my Higher Power clicked me to Bob's
site. I used the sobriety counter a lot in my first year and
found great comfort in all the amazing information he had
posted. We exchanged a few emails over those few years, I still
have them. All my emails around the fellowship are in a folder
called Love. Bob definitely showed that to me unconditionally
for which I am grateful. He's now at the last line of the Step
11 prayer. Rest in peace Bob.
Thanks from
Mike.
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Posted February 15th, 2009
From a friend
February 15th, 2009
To Whom It
May Concern, my full name is James Clair, Brown (AKA Jimmy
Freeman founder of the ‘American People’s Party’.) I sojourn at
4132 Ritchfield Dr.
Lincolnton, North Carolina
28092. My phone number is
704-240-8224. My E-mail address is
jim_ki4raw@hotmail.com.
In my humble
opinion Mr. Bob Hardison (Barefoot) was a ‘true American
Patriot’ which is rare, and I am heart broken and devastated to
hear that he has passed. I am sure that the great Creator of the
Universe has blessed him and made a warm welcome to him as he
passed through the pearly gates and straight into his place in
heaven. I am very confident that our Creator has prepared
Barefoot a special place in heaven for wise men. ‘We was
in fact a very wise man in world overran by fools’.
Respectfully
Jimmy
Freeman
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Posted February 14th, 2009
From a friend
February 13th, 2009
I spent years in the far North of
Canada giving service to my people. It was in the early 90s
that I met the man who called me brother, but only ever
through the internet. We tried, often, to meet in person,
but Creator would not have it so, yet.
The long nights in fly-ins, were times he would counsel,
support and encourage me. His life was one of service, and
he knew some of my struggles as I sacrificed everything to
give service to my people. He followed me from fly-in to
fly-in through the many years and each week I would receive
an email unless he was on his way on another wonderful
adventure. I followed him on his Golden Wing, his travels
to Alaska, his catamaran trip and knew he was about to build
his Model-T car and be off again.
Knowing Bob, he is joyfully off on this new adventure and
though my mortal Self will miss him, I know his counsel will
continue. He was a blessing here on this earth and I know I
will feel his blessings through the rest of my years. Such
a man... collecting feathers and lonely souls as he
travelled.
We met due to a pipe I sent up to Alaska to work with
troubled youth. That pipe has kept us connected all these
years and I have no doubt that each butterfly I meet from
now on will be one I can whisper to and have it whisper
back.
May your moccasins walk your next adventures with the same
spirit of love, brother.
Always,
Carol Desjarlais
Your sister, in service and love
for Creator and his beings
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Posted February 14th, 2009
From a friend
in recovery
February 12th, 2009
Barefoot sure did instill a
positive impression on me.
I remember swapping emails at port when he was sailing the
open seas. I simply loved how he showed his enthusiasm for
a life filled with sobriety and peace of mind. He certainly
did live a life filled with happiness, joy, and freedom.
Thank you Barefoot for being a powerful example and leading
the way. I wish you well as you journey onward.
Jim S.
Pensacola, FL
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Posted February 14th, 2009
From a friend
in recovery
February 11th, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear
about the passing of Barefoot Bob. Bob's teachings of
the Steps not only helped me but I passed them onto my
sponsees, friends, & others around the world.
I know he will be missed
but not forgotten; his work lives on in us and will be
passed on to others for generations to come. Thank you.
Peace & Love,
Karen
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Posted February 14th, 2009
From a friend
at sea
February 11th, 2009
To all that knew and loved Barefoot:
I have learned much from not only
what is posted on AA history but his other posts too.
Thank You B. B. Remember he is still alive in all of
you, when you think of him. I am sure he'd tell you not to
grieve for him but rather to get on with your lives, and
remember the good times.
His spirit is now free,
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Posted February 14th, 2009
From a friend
at sea
Editorial Note: This entry
became corrupted and has therefore been lost. Sorry!
Capt. Raynor, if you could please resend this message or
another, I would gladly put it back up. Please email:
info@barefootsworld.net.
Again, I apologize for the trouble. Edited 7/11/2009.
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Posted February 12th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 10th, 2009
I hardly knew Bob but his
straightforward sober manner helped me a lot in my sobriety
voyage. He made simple things precious and in so doing
made them profound.
I will miss you here from South
Africa Bob.
Mias
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Posted February 10th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 10th, 2009
I'm very sad to hear of Bob's passing...
I knew he was sick... but was hoping he would pull through.
He touched my life and I was blessed to meet him last
summer... and ride with him to some meetings.
We went to the Powwow in
Inchelieum together and we spent a few days camping and
talking AA His advice to me was to "stay in the moment".
I'll never forget the
time we had,
Three mighty important
things, Pardn'r, LOVE And PEACE and SOBRIETY
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Posted February 10th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 9th, 2009
I have been using
bearfootsworld.net as a reference site for information about
the Constitution of the Unites States.
Bearfootsworld.net is a wonderful resource, intelligently
constructed, and very useful. Indeed, it is the only place where
some ancient material, in an easily accessible form, is
available! My deep appreciation goes to Bob for his hard work
constructing and maintaining the site, and for his incomparable
dedication at keeping the light of liberty alive.
Bucks Corner
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Posted February 10th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 9th, 2009
Dear Andreas,
Only six months in my recovery, I have browsed Bob's site
numerous times. I have found courage, inspiration, comfort,
advice and, above all, a treasure of things to think about. What
Bob left behind helps me to grow, and to give my recovery a
chance to be permanent. Perhaps, one day, I will meet this man
who has touched me so thoroughly and be able to thank him in
person. I only hope that there are many years of sobriety in
between still, and that I can continue to live them with a love
of life, as Bob inspires us to do.
Steven
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 8th, 2009
I just wanted you to know, Bob
was one of my favorite. I send out A.A. history articles
several times a week to about 330 A.A.s. Bob's articles
were some of my favorite. I just found out from one of his
friends in Oklahoma about his passing. Bless his family and
friends. I hope you will keep his web site open. He was a
true believer in Christ.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 8th, 2009
My name is Randy, I am a
recovering Alcoholic, a friend of Bob's and served on the
online 12 step committee that Bob was also a member of, The
Stepper's as we refer to ourselves. The Stepper's is a
committee of some 35 alkies, from around the world, who
answer the urgent emails from the still suffering alcoholics
around the world. Bob was a faithful member and devoted
serviceman of this committee. He was quick to send a message
of hope to those who still suffered, and an uplifting note
to any who wrote in about a loved one with an alcohol
problem. We, on this committee, will sorely miss Bob. And, I
am a bit envious of his soaring into the presence of the God
of his understanding.
Thank you so much for helping to
keep the doors open, so that this miserable drunk would have
a chance at recovery. Had it not been for folks like
you, insuring the continuance of the Traditions, AA would
have gone the way of the Washingtonian's did so long before
us.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend
February 8th, 2009
Dear Andreas,
We were saddened to hear of Bob's passing and would like to
convey to you and his friends and family our commiserations.
Bob was an active Member of our Campaign for Restoration and
Universal Adoption of Constitutional Common Law Trial by
Jury.
Bob ran an interesting website. It was a significant
expression of one man's views and makes a statement of true
value to inspire others. Perhaps you will consider keeping
it up.
With our best wishes to all Bob's family, friends and
associates,
Yours sincerely,
Kenn and Astra d'Oudney.
Visit
www.democracydefined.org
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 6th, 2009
Deepest sympathy to all his
friends, hope his AA pages will be kept for posterity.
He sailed in here with his message - a hard man to keep up
with. I will have him remembered at local meetings and
his 35 years.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a new friend
February 6th, 2009
[Editorial note:
And so the message continues and the legacy lives on of a man
who only wanted to help others. Here is the first example
of a life touched by Bob after he passed on.]
I am sad to see that
Barefoot Bob has passed away . I recently discovered the
amazing archives . I have just barely tapped
the valuable information there . I'm learning . I am
also referencing it to others , hopefully many will
benefit from his knowledge.
Sincerely all my
best wishes,
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery and
fellow FiR member
February 4th, 2009
Barefoot Bob...and MORE!
Andreas,
Wife and I had the pleasure of having Barefoot swing by and stay
for a few days when we lived in Victorville, Ca. After the 2nd
day, we couldn't help notice that he hadn't bathed or showered
since he showed up, and was wearing the same clothes he had on
when he arrived. I casually let him know (once again) that he
was welcome to use the facilities to tidy up a bit. He thanked
us and went back out to the Gold Wing and grabbed a duffle bag
out of his small trailer and brought it in. My wife Terri had to
leave for some reason and the next thing I saw was a NAKED
Barefoot Windwalker standing in the kitchen changing his
clothes. He said something along the lines that he really didn't
need a shower that day but probably should put some clean
clothes on. What a guy...!
Rico
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 4th, 2009
Thank you Andreas.
Please do just let it be known I will
miss him deeply. He helped me when I was going through
some hard times spiritually last year. He and his wife were of
great help to me. Give his family my condolences. Thank
you for letting all the people know. What is so amazing is
no matter how sick he seems have been he still tried to be there
for all of us that knew the sweet man. He never told me he
was so sick. I'm sorry for your loss thanks for getting back to
me so soon in your time of grief.
Janet B.
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a family member
February 2nd, 2009
Photos from Bob's son, Bret
Hardison
This first picture is my 4 mo. old
Hayley-Rose, my dad And I the day Bob showed up at our door.
After close to 30 years of traveling around the states looking for
me he finally found my family and I in Ventura Ca.(My wife Christine
took the picture).
This 2nd picture is Bob and his 3 sons at
the Idaho ranch, summer of 1999.
The 3rd picture is the best, my half
brother Casey my dad and I camping out at the old ranch in Montana.
I had been reacquainted with my dad for 8 months and just met Casey
and the rest of the Hardisons at the Idaho ranch a couple of days
earlier. I know it meant the world to my dad to finally camp with
the two of us at the site where he grew up and was such a special
place to him, Casey too.
Pictures 4&5 are of my dad and my two
daughters, Hayley-Rose age 9 and Hannah age 6 when he was driving
the Model T around the country. These 2 pictures taken in Calif.
late August 2007.
My dad was a good man and I love him for
that. He had more adventures in his life than 10 men and his last
adventure is his grandest.
Respectfully his son,
Brett Hardison
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend
February 2nd, 2009
If I knew what to say, I would
have said it by now
If I knew what to do, I would do
it somehow
Prayers for you and Bob's family
to God I now send
He is the One who can help your
heart to mend
I am not going to lie, and say I
know how you feel,
Each of us deals with loss
differently, its so surreal
If there is anything I can do,
name it, it will be done
You always treat others like
they are number one
I offer back to you what you have
always given others so freely
You have helped others to get
through a lot of calamity
I feel helpless right now, for I
wish I had a magic cure
If there is anything I can do, I
will do it for sure
Some things do not make any
sense, no matter how at it we look
Every thing happens for a
reason, just like it says in The Big Book
However, just as I am sure you do
not, neither do I
Understand why Barefoot Bob has
gone to the by and by
Sometimes it is not, for us to
understand
If there is any way that I can
help, I will lend you my hands
If there is anything I can do,
name it, it will be done
You treat everyone else like they
are number one
I offer back to you what you have
always given others so freely
You have helped others to get
through a lot of calamity
I feel helpless right now, for I
wish I had a magic cure
If there is anything I can do, I
will do it for sure
I wish I knew the exact right
words, to offer you some hope
I do not know what to do, to help
you through this, to cope
You have always cared for others,
and I care about you
Your experience, strength, and
hope always shines through
To Him I give thanks for that,
and I just wanted to say
If there is anything big or
small, I will help in any way
If there is anything I can do,
name it, it will be done
You treat everyone else like they
are number one
I offer back to you what you have
always given others so freely
You have helped others to get
through a lot of calamity
I feel helpless right now, for I
wish I had a magic cure
If there is anything I can do, I
will do it for sure
Shannon R Gerdel
Casper, Wyoming
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery and
fellow FiR member
February 1st, 2009
Lieber Andreas,
es würde mich freuen, wenn Du das Folgende bei der Feier
vorlesen
würdest:
I'm Not Here
Don't stand by my grave and weep
for I'm not there, I do not sleep
I am thousand winds that blow
I am the diamonds glint on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn's rain
When you awaken in morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circle flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night
Do not stand on my grave and cry
I am not there, I did not die.
Farewell my friend, we'll see us in the Big Meeting.
With AA love
Manfred (MaJa, from North Germany)
P.S.: love and big hugs from Doerte and to Maureen also. M
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend
February 1st, 2009
Dear Andreas,
Thank you for the awful news. Please
convey to bob that he is in the thoughts and prayers of the
loners and also of mine.
Best regards,
Letitia Jefferson
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
February 1st, 2009
Here are some of the comments that I received concerning Bob in his
last week with us. I thought you might want to have them to know
how some of his old classmates felt. He was a wonderful guy and my
only regrets are, I wished I had the chance to have gotten to know
him better.
God Bless you and yours
Marvin McKinley
[Editorial note: All of the messages below
came in a single email from Marvin - thanks for all your help,
Marvin!]
From Sharon & Larry Barnett:
Thank you, Marvin. Your message came through intact. I am
saddened to get the news about Bob Hardison. I will pray
for his peace and comfort. Thanks, Barb Bemis Ogden
From Patrica Frost Mosher: Thank
you for relaying this sad news and for taking the time to
forward it to everyone. Pat
Marvin, thanks so much for
notifying all of us about Bob's illness. I am truly sorry
to hear that this is happening to him. He has worked so
diligently to keep up the NCHS website for us, and keep
everyone informed about the class members. We really
appreciate that. He is a special person, and will be in our
prayers. -- Cora Lee (Hastings) Forman
Dear
Marvin..................Thanks for your email. I am
dumbstruck and heart sick. Bob is such a force of life and
it is hard to believe this news though it did pass my mind
when he wrote of his terrible heartaches earlier last year.
I dismissed the thought of cancer. He has such a zest for
life. So many of my friends are dying..............guess we
are at that age. love, Nancy Lubnau Stewart
Thank you Marvin for letting us
all know about Bob. How sad if we have to lose him. He was
just wonderful to set up the website for our class and in
keeping us all advised about our classmates, etc. I don't
know of anyone that could have done it better. Cherie
Clabaugh
I called several days ago and
talked with Bob's ex wife. It did not sound good. I also
downloaded the NCHS web page and stored it just incase we
lose it. -- Darrell Fritts
Thanks, Marvin, for your
friendship and support to Bob and for keeping us informed.
My prayers continue, . . . . . Pat Tripeny
Thanks, Marvin, for keeping all
fo us informed............Nancy Stewart Lubnau
If he can hear you please tell
him my prayers are with him -- Fawnea Bacus
It is indeed sad to lose a
classmate. He was indeed a talented person who helped us
all share our classmates in a closer way in these times of
technology and helped to bring us all closer together.
Thanks for keeping us informed. May there always be a
reunion in heaven of l95l classmates. With sadness, Barbara
Bemis Ogden
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
February 1st, 2009
So I get from you another
eloquent but sadly unanswerable message. Please continue your
work. You have been a great communicator. I’m sending a
bunch of hugs to distribute when you see weeping. They
will arrive as easily and plentiful as the down of a thistle or
a feather in the wind – memories that warm your spirit. I
lack words for beloved and befriended family members, - I guess
I lack a lot, Please convey my best wishes.
And :
Bob and Alan are speaking in my
head. : I hear ... “be sure to hear music, take care of
yourself, we’ll help you stay positive.” I think I hear
laughter I guess. like a
party ---
I’ll let you go – I just
realized I awoke a little after
one
AM, fresh
and restored. Now I suddenly feel I can go back to bed.
Goodnight, rest easy, hug
Sniff flowers
Touch with wonder and
tenderness
Treasure emotions
Share a bit of bad to
balance your bits of good
Make your seven mistakes a
day
Rest easy “with the rhythm
of a heartbeat”
I guess they are still
talking - oh -- every mistake opens a door, like a
key, into new wisdom I guess like “now I know how to avoid
that problem again” I guess I can go along with that
It sounds like an easy way to learn – maybe keep my brain sharp
and appreciative. “bit of bad” hmm
Love.
Alice Alexander
Visit the NCHS Class
of '51 page on this website
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 1st, 2009
Friends,
There will be an
informal memorial service for Barefoot Bob led my Preacher Mike this
coming Saturday. Everyone is invited but no one should feel
obligated. Even those of you unfortunate enough not to have the
gift of alcoholism and its recovery are welcome! Anyone who would
like to will be invited to say a few words. This is a chance for
all of us to share some stories, inspiration, laughter, maybe some
tears and celebrate a life lived to the fullest, dedicated to
service of others and the desire to experience everything this world
has to offer.
Saturday February 7th, 2009
1:30PM
Alano Fellowship Hall
520 E Best Ave
Coeur D Alene, ID 83814-3700
Some of you live far away or have
circumstances that will make it hard or impossible to join us.
Please know you will all be with us in spirit! Another, larger
memorial service is scheduled for the last Saturday in June, 2009 in
Post Falls, Idaho. Details will come later.
Please do not come too early out of
respect for the scheduled noon AA meeting that gets out at 1pm. We
do not want to disturb the meeting - thanks!
See you all soon,
Andreas
XXX-XXX-XXXX
info@barefootsworlds.net
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
February 1st, 2009
[Editorial note:
Mike D. aka. "Preacher" Mike was asked to lead our little
memorial on Saturday, February 7th, 2009.]
YES, I consider it an honor. Aleta
forwarded your messege to me also. I will do as I've been asked.
I will also make sure to mention Janice's memorial this summer.
If there is anything else please don't hesitate to ask. I've
already told people that it would kind of an unorthodox service,
but that's OK because Bob's beliefs were not exactly orthodox.
Everyone agreed and are OK with that. I'll probably keep it real
simple, I'll pray and say a little about Bob then open it up for
those who have something to share then close with prayer. How's
that sound?....mike
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 31th, 2009
I talked to board reps and they
have oked the use of the Hall for a memorial service if you
so desire. I told them 1:30, Sat. Feb 7th. Let me know if
there is anything I can help with if this is ok with the
family. Mike D said he would be willing the lead the
service. Let me know what your decision is and we'll go from
there.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 31th, 2009
Andreas:
I'm very sorry to hear about Bob, but he definitely helped me
out with a few priciples, even thouh he always said I was still
wet behind the ears because he sobered up before I was even
born, so yes please add me to the e-mail list if you do not
mind?
God Bless!
Raymond
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend
January 31th, 2009
Thank you Andreas,
Bob is now in the hands of spirit.
Mike
& Donna Heit
This last May Bob came to visit us
at the missile site; he was fascinated by the facility. He drove
from Post Falls all the way out to our home here in Harrington
and from here to the site. The total round trip mileage would
have been 185 miles or more, but that never seemed to be a
problem with Bob. I gave him his last haircut and trimmed his
beard for him last week; in his characteristic manner he quipped
“this trim ought to be so good it’ll last me for the rest of my
life.” He was right as usual.
It was a beautiful sunny day in
May, he was feeling good except for some back pain, but Bob was
not one to comment much about his health other than an
occasional request for an aspirin or two. My wife made him a
homemade peach pie that day; he ate a really hearty meal. I’d
like to think that he still loves peach pie now as much as he
did then.
Please consider donating from time
to time to maintain the website he built.
[Editorial note: donations not currently required - thanks!]
It is and will always be a true treasure for those who wish to
research the Constitution, any information about AA, or the
million of other things Bob found fascinating and tried to share
with others. There is a link on the site to donate, it costs
almost a hundred dollars a month at this time to maintain the
site, hopefully we’ll be able to reduce that somewhat in the
near future, I am going to be posting my journeys in the
Excalibur aircraft I am building, Bob was fascinated with it and
talked with me at length about the adventure. He really wanted
to come along, so I have his memory to take with me. The bird
has been named “Barefoot Windwalker” in memory of him. We’re
going to have a great adventure he & I … and you too when you
read the posts I’ll be making to the site.
So, that said, here’s to you my
dear friend. When others gave up on me you didn’t. It’s you &
me, into the blue off on another adventure.
Bob in his Tin Lizzie at an abandoned
missile site near Harrington
Photo by Mike Heit
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From
a friend and fellow TONA member
January 31st, 2009
Thanks for the sad news, I did
have a sense that Bob was walking that long last mile
....
I didn't get to talk to him but I
did tell his ex- that my family and I were thinking of him
with great love and sentiment.
He was a veteran and he served in
Korea, and is that correct ?? Army for him, right ??
[Editorial note:
Bob was in the predecessor to the Airborne Rangers from 1951-1954]
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery and
fellow FiR member
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 31th, 2009
Thanks, Andreas. In the name of
the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost, Amen.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 31th, 2009
Thanks for the final update on
Bob. I guess you sent this to all of the classmates, if not
let me know and I will forward it to all I have. Thanks
again and Bob will always be thought of by me with complete
wonder as how he accomplished so much and what really made
him tick.
He was truly one of a kind,
Marvin McKinley
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 31th, 2009
Andreas,
Thank
you for keeping us all up to date on Bob, and for all your work
on his, and our behalf. I’m glad Bob’s suffering has ended, and
thank God for leading me to him via his wonderful web site. Is
someone going to keep the site going?
ODAAT
Mike
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a
family member
January 31st, 2009
Hi all,
Unc left us all a lot to remember at
three this morning. I know I will miss him. Please know in the
end he only wanted to make every ones life better and give us
the guidance we requested.
I was already missing him two weeks
ago! It was nice to be able to just look up from my desk and say
Hey Unc what do you think about this or that. Only a few times
did I ever get "hell I don't know". Even then He would spend the
time that he had free to come up with an answer in his own time.
So
smile with me when you think of him.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 31th, 2009
Friends,
It is Saturday morning at 3:20am (Pacific Standard Time).
Janice just called from the hospital to inform me that Bob has
passed away. In his own special way he touched all our lives
and we loved him for it. His work is done.
Love and peace,
Andreas
XXX-XXX-XXXX
info@barefootsworlds.net
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Relationship unknown
Email
info@barefootsworlds.net to update
Thanks!
January 30th, 2009
So admired that man's writings, am so sad
to hear that he is having such a rough time....but he's been through
so much. Will definitely miss this man. Please keep those who you've
notified of any additional information concerning Windwalker....
Arlene (Arley) Taylor
Oregon.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
Relationship unknown
Email
info@barefootsworlds.net to update
Thanks!
January 30th, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Bob. I
have been on his web site many times and am also hoping that his
site will be kept going like Aron Russos was. Bob will be missed
tremendously with all the hard work he has done to keep the
patriot community informed.
Bob will be in my prayers daily and I
know that God will reward him greatly when he takes him home!
Please pass on my condolences to his family for me and please
keep me informed about him.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 30th, 2009
Andreas,
my heart goes out
to you especially, the one who sees the balance of
suffering, the need to communicate, entwined with both hope
and sorrow. I believe – no – I know from experience that a
coma patient does hear you. Each tenderness you give, each
laughter and concerned touch seem
to hold an energy level that transmits. They transmit back
at a level which your body does not process as noticeably as
sight, touch, hearing, tasting or smell – a bee is prepared
by nature to receive ultra-violet light – humans are not
equipped for ultra-violet or telepathy, and it goes through
subtler channels. You’ll get his overwhelming sensations of
freedom from pain and restriction, and from great memories
he chooses to express at your most vulnerable moments, those
just before you go to sleep and begin to visualize. Stay
open and enjoy the blessings. Even bad memories will get
justified this way. Pay attention without resisting the
input. My love goes out to you...take it. The big word
“sharing” covers the little words “give” and “take”
so you must take, even if when you want to give. I
am sending hugs to all, including one to God, who knows
best. You understand. And I admire you for that. Thank
YOU for these painful updates.
Love, Alice Alexander
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 29th, 2009
Hi Everyone,
Even though this is a long update, there really is not much left
to tell in this story. Bob is basically
unresponsive although I am certain he can still recognize
visitors. When I took hold of his hands and said,
"Bob" a few times, he opened his eyes and said my name but then
falls right back to sleep. He has not been
functionally conscious since early this week.
I held Bob's hands and passed on the latest round of messages,
letters and greetings from all around the globe.
Somewhere deep inside I hope and wish he heard everything
everyone had to say but I just don't know anymore.
There simply is not much of what was once Barefoot Bob left in
him. He has started shaking and twitching but
nursing staff is keeping him calm with Ativan which seems to
help quite a bit and keeps him asleep. He has not
had anything to eat or drink for days now and he is shrinking
every time I see him. When I talked to him a few
days ago he said he was ready to go and I cannot image him
staying around much longer.
But Bob's story may not be over yet and anyone who knows Bob has
to admit that the following crazy idea might just keep him alive
for a while longer: If Bob can hang in there long
enough to collect his next social security check, there will be
money to finish some much needed repairs to his old Ford
Model-T. It would also get him his 35 year AA
medallion. Who knows but it brought some much
needed comic relief to those of us visiting at the time.
As always, Bob is surrounded by friends and family and a lot of
love. Please feel free to visit his bedside or
call his room and talk to Janice or whoever is visiting at the
time. Just do not expect Bob to be able to speak
on the phone or respond or react to your visit. As
I said, I am sure he will know you are there but the time for a
response has come and gone. Quite a few people
have been asking me for his phone number and address so here
they are again:
SpokaneVAMedicalCenter
Room 155C
4815 North Assembly
Street
Spokane, WA99205
This is in the hospice (nursing home) wing. Park
behind the hospital in the lower parking lot and enter into the
single story building, not the tall hospital building itself.
Go through the double automatic doors and hang a right.
At the nurse's station, take another right.
Go to the end of the hall and take a left. The
room has his name on it (R. Hardison).
You can also call his hospital room directly at XXX-XXX-XXXX.
Thanks and have a great day,
Andreas
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From
a friend and fellow TONA member
January 29th, 2009
How sad. I have known Bob over 20
years. Thank you for letting me know about his condition. Our
country is losing a valiant patriot soul. Please keep us
informed about him. He will be sorely missed when he moves to
Heaven and his well deserved reward.
I hope someone will keep his website alive and active. There is
so much good information there that should not be lost. It is
such a great source of study.
Most sincerely,
Deon Masker
Bob's friend from Hayden Lake
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From
friends and fellow TONA members
January 29th, 2009
We hold great esteem for Bob, and
upon learning of his present condition, my husband hurriedly
made arrangements with his employer to be off starting
tomorrow, Friday, through next Wednesday. We are right now
throwing our stuff together to take off tonight, and hope to
be in Spokane sometime Saturday.
[Editorial note:
Bob passed away while these good folks were traveling to
visit him]
I'm sure we will some you at some
time at the VA hospice.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 29th, 2009
will pray for you. I think this
time is much harder on the loved ones than it is for Bob. I
went through this with a friend while he was in hospice and
I truly do think they know when you are there.
Just keep on talking to him.
Marilyn Ladd
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 29th, 2009
Andreas,
God Bless you for being
there with Bob and standing with him like you have. When a
person is severely drugged, it is correct that they can hear and
know what is going on, but like being in a drunken stupor it is
hard to retain what is reality and what is imagination. When
you are on such high amounts of morphine as Bob is, he isn't
responsive because it shuts his nerves down that control
everything that is why he doesn't feel the pain. I have been
through what you are going through and depending on what kind of
care Bob asked for when he can't respond will depend on how long
he is able to keep fighting this battle. One of our AA friends
got so bad, even if you sat on the edge of the bed next to him
he would scream in pain. I found this out by accident. Every
nerve in his body was in pain, and he too had brain cancer. Just
watch for this. One of the most important things that I have
learned with the end of life, is that our loved ones need to
have our permission to go ahead and let go, to leave us behind.
I gave Bob my permission when I saw him last, and asked him to
come and see me when he got to the other side so I knew he had
arrived. I have no doubt that he will. Each of my loved ones
that I was able to love and give them permission to go passed
away in just a few days.
Andreas you are
celebrating with Bob, his full circle of life, birth has to be
painful, only we don't remember it, so death seems to be also.
Death is a part of life, and what you do in the middle is what
is important. Just so you know, not only has Bob been a great
friend, counselor and dad when I needed one, but you also have
been a good friend. Although I don't see you often, I know my
heart is safe with you. In my book that means the world to me.
Tell Maureen I love her too, and please continue to keep me
posted.
Love,
Billie
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 29th, 2009
Dear Andreas,
So sorry to hear about the
deterioration of Bob's condition. Yes, it is true that
people are aware while in a coma, I have witnessed this
twice. It is also good that he is no longer in pain and
surely God will be merciful and not let him linger. He has
given those around him time to absorb the circumstances and
time to assure him that he was not alone. It is sad and none
of us want to see dear ones leave us, but the fact is that
this is what we are doing from the day that we are born.
From what I know it sounds like he used his days wisely.
Bless you for being there. Please
keep me informed.
Love and prayers,
Pat Mosher Frost.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 29th, 2009
Tell Bob he will stay in my
prayers and will miss him much in the meetings in Idaho and
what a great man for this program, AA.
Thoughts and prayers from
Colorado,
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From
a friend and fellow TONA member
January 29th, 2009
I have been reading the messages
about Barefoot Bob and so naturally, I am quite concerned.
However, if he must pass, I say
let him pass with the dignity that certainly becomes such
a good man, such a good American,
such a great and true Patriot.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery and
fellow FiR member
January 28th, 2009
Please share with Barefoot
all the love so many are sending, including all the members of
Paltalk AA ~~~~~Gordy (from Australia send his prayers and love
for all that you have shared with AA)---Thank you for all your
Journals we will all meet again with our Higher Power
((((((Love and Prayers
Barefoot Bob)))))
Frank M.
The Friends
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Membership may be required
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 28th, 2009
Bob and I were never real good
friends, but I have appreciated it so much all the work he
has done for the class of 1951. I can somewhat understand
what he is going through. You can tell him I went through
three bouts of kidney and bladder cancer starting when we
lived in northern California about 17 years ago. I sort of
hate to tell people about that, because somehow,
miraculously, I pulled through. I am one of the lucky ones
and I wish that could happen for Bob. Please tell him I am
thinking about him and am praying for him not to suffer too
much. My husband, Bill, and I are both still working. He
as an engineer with his own firm and I work as a realtor.
Have had that profession both in California and Wyoming - 25
years. I keep doing it because I feel blessed to be able
to.
Give my love to Bob.
Marilyn Ladd
What a blessing you are as a
friend!
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Bob and his mother
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 28th, 2009
Please tell Bob that Lindsey (little
blonde Lindsey from the 9:30pm meeting) loves him very much.
That he changed my life and that I'm praying for him. He is a
wonderful man. Thank you!
Lindsey
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 28th, 2009
Hi Everyone,
Bob has had a slow but steady decline since last Friday.
On Monday I was still able to enjoy spending some time
with him alone where we had a nice conversation for over an hour
during which he received several phone calls from his high
school classmates. Unfortunately, that time may
have come to an end. Today he was barely able to
acknowledge my presence at his bedside. His
ex-wife, Janice, told me he was a little bit more alert later in
the afternoon when his nephew, Tony, stopped by to take care of
some last minute details that needed to be addressed.
After Tony's visit, at Bob's request, the medical staff finally
put in the morophine/Ativan IV drip thereby alleviating his
considerable pain but at the same time, inducing a coma.
Quite a few people have told me that people in Bob's
condition can still hear and can be aware of a persons presence
after a coma has been induced. But they are no
longer able to respond. In the hopes that what
they say is true, I will visit Bob again on Friday and pass
along another update to all of you.
I am very glad that Bob's pain has been removed but at the same
time, I am shocked at how far down hill he has gone in two short
days since we talked on Monday. Our conversation
may have been a last parting gift from Bob's higher power,
Charlie. Only God knows what the near future will
bring so I will close by adding that I am very grateful for the
time I was able to spend with Bob as I am sure all of you are
also. The countless messages, emails and letters
all of you have sent make it clear how many people's lives
Barefoot was able to touch during his time with us and have
shown me more of his life than I would otherwise have
experienced. That too is a gift!
Thanks for everything... I'll keep you posted,
Andreas
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 27th, 2009
Bob:
We want to you to know how proud
we are to be among those who have shared with you the many
memories of our few short years as high school classmates.
As the years passed, we all have pursued our own
destinies. The "herd" is somewhat smaller now, but we
remember well those who have left. As you know, Lola and I
are married classmates. We celebrated our 50th wedding
anniversary on June 1. 2008. We are so grateful for the
memories of our high school days that we share. We have
never missed a reunion. Thank you for all you have done to
help organize them. We are especially grateful for the NCHS
Class of 51 website that you created; and all of the timely
emails keeping us up to date. God bless you; 'til we meet
again. And, we will!!
Floyd and Lola (Unangst) Freeman
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
When I spend time in my
memory and reflect upon your statements and philosophy I am
reminded of the other Bob, who started our miracle opus program
with Bill in a truly higher power inspired fellowship and
program of steps to self examination and growth.
Thank you for your light
upon my path, many have helped guide me on my way to recovery,
you are one of them. Thank You
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 27th, 2009
Well, Bob, we know now how well you fit in! Talk about a crazy
bastard!!! But a most loveable one. You be sweet to those
folks caring for you-they're the very best. And how lucky can
one guy get to have such a wonderful friend as Andreas.
Mine your memories-cause they're of a
wonderful life. Prayers and love.
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 27th, 2009
I’m sorry to hear about
classmate Bob Hardison. My sympathies
and expletive (cuss-word) regrets that I am unable to ease your
worries or grieving. I want to send
hugs over the net. If you think it, you got one. We all grieve
differently, and I happen to feel my loved ones even after they go.
I hear them yelling with happiness and relief from pain and
agonies. I feel love and a stand-by-ness. Alan is always there
when I think him and this time he’s saying he is waiting for a
friend. I think Bob will be with you in spirit.
Give him a hug from Alice
and YES Alan Alexander.
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a family member
This letter to Bob, from his
son, Casey Hardison, arrived about one week before Bob passed away.
Bob read it several times while he was able to. Casey will
take over this website once he returns to the United States.
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 26th, 2009
Incredible GUY!! Tell
him we all loved his adventures and we do want him to be with us
at our 60th—2011—boy, that’s hard to believe.
Tough but it sounds
like he has the right faith—we all love the guy and we are with
him all the way.
Dick Day
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 26th, 2009
I have known you {Bob f/58yrs and
U are one one of the toughest people I have ever met. From
stealing beer kegs to the fighting of the never ending
battle of beating of the booze. Bob, if U can beat
that U can whip this. You told a few minutes ago that U put
the booze on remission f/ 30 yrs If that can happen, U
can beat this F/ another 30 yrs.
Bob
I am not f/ praying but I have ask the man upstairs to give
U time to reunite with me and your friends one more time.
Bob its been a pleasure. Take care and keep the coffee
pot going.
My best wishes, HANG IN THERE!
Sincerely,
HERK
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 26th, 2009
Hi, I am Pat Mosher Frost class of
51. I was so sorry to hear about Bob and wish you to tell him I
contacted you and send my prayers. The communication he set up
for our class is absolutely the best and sometimes when I am
feeling lost for Wy (Wyoming) I bring it up just to remember the
fun days. I live in Royce City TX, moved to Dallas in 1961 and
then Garland, TX and then Winnsboro, TX and then Bowie, TX. I
inherited my Grandmother's house in 1985 and moved back and
totally redid it, stayed two years and I guess you just can't go
back home. Moved back to Dallas and my old job, 20 years with
the Southwestern Institute of Forensic Sciences in pathology and
retired in 1998. In 2002 I sold my Dallas home and bought in a
little rural town of Royce City, now it is 9000 people, so much
for country and vegie gardens. I have had a good life and a real
downer at times. Like Bob I had cancer when I was 30 and I guess
what saved me was the Dr. dropped dead at his desk six weeks
later and so I never had radiation, at that time they cooked
everything in the vicinity. 1997 again I had a scare and they
took the bottom lobe of my left lung. Surprise, it was a fungus
of the kind of San Joaquin, Ca. And here I am so sad about Bob.
May God love a duck and keep him safe. I have not been back to
Casper since the 40th reunion and will probably never go back
again. The one friend I had kept up with since 8th grade and I
had a conversation after the 55th and I decided that she was
being snobbish in her attitude about some of our classmates,
though I was not close friends with this classmate I resented
what she said. Bob what did you do to piss her off so? Hey, she
needed it and congrats and I hope she now feels like doo-doo
Andreas, I am so glad he has someone close give him a hug and
tell him I am thinking about him and please keep me in touch.
Pat Mosher Frost.
Oh my cell phone is XXX-XXX-XXXX and I do not
answer the land line unless a message is left. Bye now, be
safe..
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 26th, 2009
It was with such sadness to
receive the news about Bob from his son and also from you.
Thank you for taking the time to keep us updated. Please
tell Bob he is in my thoughts and prayers and to stay strong
and fighting. I don't know what our class would have done
without him - setting up the class website, keeping all of
us informed about our classmates, etc., and for keeping us
informed about all of his wonderful and interesting
adventures.
God bless him. We must pray for
a miracle.
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 26th, 2009
Andreas,
I am a classmate of Bob's
and have so very much enjoyed his life adventures and sharing
that he has done in the past. Please extend to him my sincere
prayers of caring and compassion in this health challenge he's
facing. I can't think of anyone replacing him in binding us
together and having such a generous spirit in doing so. I
will appreciate hearing progress reports on his well-being,
body, mind, and spirit.
Thank you for your support,
Pat Tripeny
Casper, Wyoming
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 26th, 2009
Thank you for the info. Bob's younger brother emailed me a
couple of days ago and I notified all of the classmates that I
had emails addresses for. Let Bob know that he is in all of our
prayers. He has experienced so many different adventures
in his life and I have tried to keep up with them as they were
posted on his website as I know many of the other classmates
have. I don't have the expertise to step up and keep the Class
of 51 pages up to date etc. but I certainly hope someone with
the knowledge and know how steps up and takes it over. It
isn't any small task but Bob did it without any complaints and
certainly didn't get all of the thanks or appreciation that we
have all felt and enjoyed through the years. I have heard back
from a few of the classmates thanking me for forwarding his
bothers email and all have expressed how much Bob is in their
prayers. Please let him know. I will forward your email onto
all of the classmates that I sent the other to and if they get
it twice it won't hurt. I tried to call Bob a few minutes ago
but no answer, I will try again later. Been out shoveling snow
here in Fort Collins, Colorado this AM.
Thanks again for your info,
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 26th, 2009
Dear Bob,
It would be hard to find the
words to tell you how much we all appreciate all you have done to
rally the troops over the years. Your computer expertise, your
personal philosophies, and artistic abilities have given us all a
sense of place and appreciation of where we came from. My prayers
are with you during this difficult time and I know that there is
going to be another roundup in the far pasture one day and it will
be a glorious one, free from pain and all our worldly concerns.
God bless you and yours and
thank you again from the bottom of my heart for all your selfless
efforts over all these years,
Doris Porter Williams
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Barefoot and Casey on the big canoe trip down the
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 26nd, 2009
Hi Everyone,
I stopped by to visit Bob
again today. He was not doing nearly as well as last week. He
was tired and in pain. He thought he had over done it a bit in
the last few days. Nevertheless, we had a nice talk, I read him
all the messages and emails and even the pile of snail mail he
had received. No one else was there while I visited and I
enjoyed having Bob to myself for a little while. He did,
however, receive several phone calls from his classmates from
high school, the ’51 Mustangs from Casper Wyoming. As always,
he listened to the news from friends and family members very
intently and filled me in with several stories and adventures
about each person who wrote. He is still very anxious to hear
from all of you so keep it coming!
Again, if you have trouble
reaching Bob by phone, please keep trying. Sometimes he simply
can’t reach the phone or is too weak to talk or has no one to
help him. A few hours later, he may be in better shape and able
to talk again. Your perseverance is appreciated!
Hopefully I remembered this
just as Bob said it! He asked me to pass on the following:
“Tell all them suckers I love ‘em… all them crazy bastards!”
Have a great day and thanks
for all you folks have done to keep Bob in good spirits,
Andreas
XXX-XXX-XXXX
info@barefootsworlds.net
PS: Email me your photos
and stories of Bob. Eventually, I intend to post all of them on
Barefoot’s site at
www.barefootsworld.net
for all of us to enjoy. Thanks!
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 25th, 2009
Bob:
Sorry to hear you're having such a tough row now. You've been such
a wonderful and exciting member of our class! Loved our visit
a few years ago at our farm in Patterson, Ca. Was such a surprise
to see you wheel in our drive.
We sold that place, moved back to Casper to be with ailing fathers.
Three years ago they both passed so we are out and about once
again. We bought a winter home in Fountain Hills, AZ; spend 6 mos
there and 6 mos in Casper. Also do loads of traveling. Went to
Greece and Germany last Fall and plan to wander around somewhere
this year.
Do know you've contributed so much to all of us with your wonderful
work for the class AND your positive outlook and funnies.
Love and Prayers
Edith Stock
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From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 25nd, 2009
Hi Andreas -
Bob used to have this slide show out on his site, but it no
longer seems to be there. I'm passing it along in hopes
possibly you would know how to post it on our FIR board, or show
to Bob on a laptop if he'd like or let Janice see it. Bob spent
about 3 weeks here a year and a half ago while driving his T
around the county. It broke down near here and he fixed the
whole thing right here in my driveway!
I'll always treasure that time we spent together
Bruce
Miramar, FL
Bruce
and Bob at Bruce's house in Miramar, Florida
Barefoot on board the Windwalker
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by Bruce
Miramar, Florida
October 12 – 29, 2007
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From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 25th, 2009
Dear Bob,
Just wanted you to know you are in my
thoughts and prayers. You have been on many journeys during
your lifetime...now you are facing life's final journey. I hope you
are at peace with your Maker as you walk this path. You truly
illustrate the saying that you want to slide in at the end of life
saying "Wow, what a ride!" God bless you and comfort all those who
love you. Thank you so much for all the work you have done rounding
up the Mustangs from NCHS. Sorry I don't know enough about websites
to do any good there. Sure hope someone will come forward and
continue the good work you have started. It's only two years until
our 60th class reunion will be upon us!All Hail to Casper High
School...N-C-H-S!!! and to Barefoot Bob who brings us together
through the internet.
Loving thoughts,
Vonda Alexander Clark
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From a member of the
Natrona County High
School
Class of '51 Mustangs
Casper, Wyoming
January 25th, 2009
Hi, Bob,
Marvin McKinley emailed us advising
that you have entered hospice care. Larry and I are thinking of
you and want you to know we think of you as one of our most
amazing classmates. You not only imagined adventures--you
pursued them. You have kept your NCHS Class of '51 connected in
a very special way. Thank you, Barefoot--smooth sailing, safe
landing--you are, indeed, one of a kind.
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From a friend in recovery
Hi Andreas,
I have been kept up to date on Bob's set backs and recoveries by Tim
Hunt. I am glad to hear that Charlie is in charge and not Bob. A day
at a time is something I learned to do very slowly in AA; but it
always works. I have been in Los Angeles working since December
2007; and I miss seeing Bob from time to time at the Rathdrum "Dogs"
meetings and occasionally at the CDA Alano Club.
Bob,
thank you for being a real alcoholic, and
sharing your experience Strength and hope with me; as it has helped
me many times to shatter this ego that is trying to get me drunk.
God is, and I am not. I re-read the story of Grandfather and the
Windwalker yesterday. Amen.
Dave
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 22nd, 2009
Thank you for all that you gave, all
that you shared, all that you did in the service of AA and all
the paths your journey crossed. Mine was one of them. Peace be
with you.
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 22nd, 2009
Bob,
I want to thank you
for all you’ve done for me by way of your wonderful web site. I
would often visit “Barefoot’s World” while I was still drinking, and
would find hope that someday I might find what you so joyfully
talked about. After my wife was diagnosed with cirrhosis and
completed rehab we joined AA. That was over three years ago, we are
still very sober and love life, and each other, fully, one day at a
time.
Now, in sobriety I use
your site to further my understanding of our disease and how to best
fight it. Between the articles you’ve gathered and those you’ve
written you have created a treasure trove of wonderful, inspiring,
God directed, works. I’ll be forever grateful.
I also joined FIR, but
didn’t participate very often. But I have gotten to know Bill Kist
pretty well, and even sent him a cutting from the Pass It On Plant,
which is from the plant that was besides Bill W’s bed when he died.
Bill wrote and told me about your condition.
I immediately signed
on to FIR and read everything that was posted, and I was shocked.
The last I’d heard you were doing fine. I am very sorry to hear
about the most recent events, and you have been in my prayers, all
day today, and I will continue to pray that God’s will be done in
your life, and thank Him for leading me to you so many years ago.
I just read that you
have rebounded some. That’s wonderful news. There are a lot of
people praying for you Bob, perhaps there are still a couple of
drunks that need you to show them the way into the Fellowship.
May God bless and keep
you,
Mike
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From a friend in recovery
January 22st, 2009
Hi Everyone,
Good news! This is an update I
never expected to make after last night but am very grateful for!
Bob has perked up today and the medical staff has put off inducing a
coma until he asks for it again. I stopped by the hospital at Bob’s
former wife’s, Janice, request during my lunch break at work. Last
night Janice and I were really wondering if Bob would make it
through the night. What a difference a day makes! It looks like
Bob’s higher power, Charlie, is not quite done with him yet.
While I was there about a half
dozen people stopped by to visit Bob. Janice told me more are on
the way through this coming weekend since their trip to the Omak
Roundup has been canceled. Bob visited quietly but eagerly with
everyone and was happy to have them there.
Bob’s turnaround today puts the
phrases, “One day at a time” and “Life on life’s terms” into
perspective for me. Please keep the emails, phone calls and posts
coming! I will take another batch over to him tomorrow evening to
read to him.
Have a great day,
Andreas
XXX-XXX-XXXX
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Posted February 7th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 21st, 2009
Andreas,
Thank you for loving on Bob and the rest of us these past few days.
Thank you for that. Barefoot grabbed ahold of my hand when I reached
out via the internet here at FIR in March or April of 1996. God only
knows how many he touched prior to and after our first meeting then.
I tried calling him the day before yesterday and nobody answered.
Sure would have liked to have said hello to wish him peace. I will
miss him tremendously.
Rico
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From a friend in recovery
January 21st, 2009
Hi Everyone,
First of all, thanks to Frank for your phone call at a critical
moment when I really needed some support! Your timing, when I had
just left the hospice this evening, was perfect.
I have good news and bad news – although nothing really seems like
good news right now. The good news is that Bob had a conversation
this evening with his higher power, Charlie, and told him he was
ready to go. Everything Bob wants taken care of has been arranged
for or handled and he is at peace.
The bad news is that Bob’s pain is such that he has opted to be put
on a machine that will run morphine and Ativan though him at all
times but will keep him pain free. This will basically induce a
coma and put him to sleep until he passes on. Bob is fully aware of
what this means for him. He was supposed to be put on this machine
this evening but the doctor did not get the order in on time. The
machine will be brought in the morning. Bob was awake for a longer
period of time during my visit and passed on some instructions for
the maintenance of his website: www.barefootsworld.net. We were
also able to say a few of the things that friends say to each other
in these situations even though the words seemed hollow and
meaningless at the same time. I must admit it was difficult since
it could very well have been my last conversation with him. The
doctors say it is unlikely he will be awake much, if at all, once
the machine is in place.
As of approximately 4pm (Pacific Standard Time), all messages I
have received via telephone and email as well as all posts on
www.friendsinrecovery.org have been read and passed on to
Barefoot. He listened very closely while I read him everything. He
knows he is loved by all of you and that you are all praying for
him. When I finished, he asked me to ask all of you to read “Windwalker
Listens” on his website. Both the link and the text are below.
This, he said, is his final message to “the tribe”, all his friends
around the world. He also asked that I send his love to all of you.
I would also like to add my thanks for all of your support during
this difficult time!
Let’s all keep our good friend, Barefoot Bob, in our prayers.
Thanks,
Andreas
XXX-XXX-XXXX
info@barefootsworlds.net
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From a friend in recovery
January 21st, 2009
Hi Everyone,
With a bit of luck, Barefoot should have
a broadband internet connection by 6pm (Pacific Standard Time)
tonight. Hopefully you will all get an update from him directly in
the very near future.
[Editorial note: We got
all the equipment needed to get Bob back online but he was no longer
in any shape to do so]
Have a great day,
Andreas
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From a friend in recovery
January
18th, 2009
Tim,
Kirby, Dutch and I went and
saw Barefoot this afternoon. I met his daughter Susan and spent some
time with her alone so she had someone to talk to also. I gave her
my phone number and e-mail so that she could contact me if she
needed or wanted. She said the parade of people that had come to see
him, really helped her to understand her dad much better and she was
amazed by the people that he had helped. Bob was doing pretty darn
well!
He was in his wheel chair a
bunch and we went and smoked and hung out for a while. He had eaten
well, and ate while we were there. He finally got a dose of
morphine and he kind of chilled out a little. He is as sharp as can
be even on the pain meds. He doesn�t want to have confusion and is
worried about that. His daughter tape recorded some of the
conversation and I hope that it is possible to somehow get copies of
Bob�s message he shared when I asked him what the most beautiful
place he had ever seen was. He shared a bunch of different places,
but he also said �every where is beautiful, and everyone, depending
how �I� choose to see it.� I hope I never forget that message and
the feeling that is behind it. Please forward this on, if you
like, I give you my permission.
Love
Billie
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From a friend in recovery
January
18th, 2009
Barefoot, was one of the
people who kept me screwed down to the ground for most of my first 5
years of recovery. I have known him for over 20 years now. I have
already lost many of my mentors in my early sobriety. This soldier
will be another great loss for AA. My original sponsor passed away
from cancer two years ago, and it about killed me when they played
taps for him. If it wasn't for the old boys in this program I would
not be sober. I had a connection with one woman, but it has been
the AA men in my life that have helped me through the toughest
times. I know us girls are supposed to stick together, but most of
the women I just don't connect with. (Could I be a guy in a women's
body and don't know it?)
Billie
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 18th,
2009
Hi Everyone,
We had a very nice 2.5 hour long
AA meeting with Bob on Saturday with about a dozen people
attending. Several of his sponsees were there. It was very
intimate with lots of laughter and tears. Bob participated very
actively and listened intently to everything everyone had to say in
spite of his pain medication which sometimes puts him to sleep.
Afterwards, he had a nice lunch
followed by more family visits. As usual. he is keeping a very busy
schedule! Several of us are planning to meet up at his bedside on
Monday night around 5pm. Maybe another AA meeting will break out.
Getting Bob's computer setup
will take a few days still but I think we have a good solution to
get him a cellular broadband internet connection. It seems the
reception in his room is fairly good so now all we need is the
hardware and the service plan.
That's the news!
Have a great day,
Andreas
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 16th,
2009
Hi Folks,
Hopefully this will be my last
update on Bob! It looks like as soon as we figure out
how to get him an internet connection, he can post his own updates
again.
Bob has been moved from the
hospital wing to the hospice wing of the VA Medical center.
His new, long term, direct address is as follows:
Bob Hardison
SpokaneVAMedicalCenter
Room 155
4815 N. Assembly Street
Spokane, WA 99205-6197
His bedside phone number is: 509-434-7850
He told me that he has been
completely pain free since yesterday, has eaten three full meals by
mouth (not via the feeding tube!) and that the doctors have given
him about six months. He is in good spirits and has
made tremendous improvements in the last 48 hours. His
home group is planning to bring a meeting to his room once a week
and he is already seeking other friends of Bill W. in hospice to
startup a local meeting while he is there. Bob has
opted to stay in Spokane instead of being relocated to Coeur d'Alene
or PostFalls. He is anxious to get his computer up and
running at his bedside so he can communicate with all of you and his
other his friends and family directly again as soon as possible.
Obviously Bob's higher power still has plans for him!
This includes attending the Omak Roundup next weekend:
11th
AnnualOkanoganValley Winter Roundup
January
23-25, 2009
Elks
Lodge
110 S
Ash Street
Omak,
WA
Now you'all have all the
information I have available, along with the latest update, all in
one place. If there is anything I can do for any of
you, please feel free to contact me directly:
Andreas Braunlich
XXXX
N Loch Haven Drive XX
Hayden, ID 83835
XXX-XXX-XXXX
info@barefootsworlds.net
I am relieved and gladdened by
the Bob I spoke to this evening compared to two days ago!
There is no lack of gratitude in my life today!!!
And I must admit I am being purely selfish right now.
Have a great weekend,
Andreas
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Posted February 8th, 2009
From a friend in recovery
January 14th,
2009
To all the friends of Barefoot
Bob:
This is not a direct quote but
it is as close as I can remember it after an hour and a half drive
home from the VA Hospital in Spokane: Barefoot Bob says to tell
everyone that “The old man is hanging in there and so can they. All
we all have to do is not pick up that first drink.” I suppose if he
can handle his reoccurring lung cancer and secondary brain tumors, a
feeding tube in his stomach, several IVs and a small collection of
machines keeping him going, one day at a time, we can all handle
staying sober today also!
Here is a bit of what is going
on: A year ago, Bob had a lung removed due to lung cancer. In
September, he had a golf ball sized tumor removed from the back of
his head. Since that time, he has had terrible head aches. A month
ago, during a checkup, he had a CT scan and was declared cancer
free. Now, his lung cancer has returned in his remaining lung and
he had at least one more tumor, far larger than the last one in the
back of his head. There could be more but more tests are needed.
He has a feeding tube so he no longer needs to eat, which has been a
problem for the last month. He has had trouble eating and keeping
down what he was able to eat. There is some talk of him being
transferred to Hospice soon so he will be around a little longer
than first expected. There was some mention of up to 6 months as a
possibility.
As for his disposition, mentally
and emotionally, he is very sharp and alert. He is in good spirits
considering his circumstances and the AA quotes and Big Book fraises
just keep coming. He wants very much to attend an upcoming AA
roundup and is making plans to do so. He also wants to see his
anniversary in about one month. In spite of everything, he still
has ambitions! Bob gets many visitors, both friends and family,
during the day.
Bob’s direct phone number in his
hospital room is XXX-XXX-XXXX (Pacific
Standard Time). Please feel free to call him directly – he would
love to hear from any and all of you. His ex-wife, Janice, may
answer the phone and pass you on to Bob. She is a wonderful lady
who is making sure Bob has everything he needs at all times.
Sometimes it is hard to reach Bob, such as when he is sleeping or
out of his room having tests or other procedures done. You may have
to try several times before you reach him successfully. Do not be
discouraged!
Thanks to Manfred for keeping
you all updated until I got my act together and joined FiR to post
my own messages.
Bob sends his love to all of
you!
Thanks and have a great day,
Andreas
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From a friend in recovery
January 12th,
2009
Hau Kola,
I's been years since we set in a meeting together, chatted about
buckskinnin, program, "Fred," hang in the mikola, you are an
inspiration to a lot of us.
Toksa,
Lafe
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From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 12th,
2009
Barefoot know you are loved and prayers
go there for you my friend. You have taught me a lot about
living over the past 20 years since I put that stopper back in the
bottle and kept it there no matter what....
I love you...
Heather
(Australia)
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From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 12th,
2009
Ahhh Geees Bob....Ya lived your life in northern Idaho in the
harshest weather around...you went through a lot of years as a
drunk...you survived a near death dunking in the
Mediterranean....you survived the teachings of AA....I hope you
overcome this battle as well. Know this though....no matter what
else happens...you've had a long term positive effect on this drunk
......
I'll say a few prayers on your behalf....See ya soon..
Bill
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From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 11th, 2009
Hi,
Thank you for forwarding our messages to
Barefoot.
Please say Hello for me and tell him that I'm praying for him.
Francine from Montreal (CANADA)
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From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 11th, 2009
Hey Barefoot...!
My Friend....Heard you weren't
feeling too good right now. I really don't know what to say so
here's a big ((Barefoot)) and prayers for you to get well enough
to be able to stop by on the way to your next adventure. You're
on my heart big guy......
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From a friend in recovery
and fellow FiR member
January 11th, 2009
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Website
Dear FiR`s,
my friend Andreas, a sponsee of Barefoot called me that Bob is in
the VA hospital in Spokane since Thursday. His cancer occupied big
parts of his body and he is in a bad constitution. On Monday he
shall connected with a morphine machine because of his big pain.
It is important for Barefoot to keep you all updated and you can
contact Andreas for more information by email:
info@barefootsworlds.net
Andreas can print and forwarding your messages to Barefoot. All
massages to this topic I find on this side will be forwarding as
well to Barefoot via Andreas. Please notice in case you don't want
it.
All my prayers and thoughts with
love to Barefoot are on its way.
I`am so sorry to open up this
topic.
With AA love
Manfred
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To all of those who got left out,
I am very sorry, but I cannot fit the
literally thousands of e-mails, cards, letters and other messages I received
into this website with the time I have available. I am very sorry
about that and am and will do the best I can.
I am very sorry if your message got or gets left out. I did this to
make the selection as impersonal and fair as possible.
Thanks very much for your understanding,
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